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The Journey Begins With A Single Step

Print This Post Print This Post    15 Jun 2007 in Escape The Cubicle by Greg Rodgers

IMG_3177There is no feeling that quite describes being stuck in a corporate office, worse yet, in a cubicle, when the sun is burning through a cloudless blue sky.

For 7 years, I miraculously managed not to throw a phone, flog away an intruder, or hang myself in the corner of my office with Ethernet cabling. Like everyone else, I knew there was more to life than waking up at the last minute and jockeying through traffic to make a bunch of old men richer.

However, a strange and powerful force kept me glued to my seat, sorting through corporate memos, reminding me to file my TPS reports properly.

Bills. Lots of them. Always creeping into my mailbox when I least expected it. There were the usual suspects like electric, water, and a mortgage on a place so over-sized for me that I hadn’t even opened some of the rooms yet.

Then there were the bothersome credit card statements that included all my internet purchases. Among the damages, there were expenses for high tech toys I thought would make work more bearable.

My cell phone could play MP3s, games, movies, and open random gateways to alternate dimensions with the tap of a stylus. Also included were new clothes that were sure to impress my dates and restaurant tabs in overpriced places that make you feel important.

A Revelation

pie-chartBeing a well trained IT geek, I decided to do an analysis of where my money was going and constructed a simple spreadsheet where I recorded purchases for 1 month. Unfortunately, I have the attention span of a bored cat, so a couple of months passed before I found the spreadsheet again hiding in a dusty corner of my hard drive.

“Oh yeah…I remember this,” I said and opened it with a snappy mouse click. I nearly swallowed my tongue at the results inside.

Things needed for daily life, like groceries and Redbull, made up the lowest expenses. Not just a few, but a majority of my purchases were unnecessary and compulsive moves to keep me distracted. I was putting at least one kid through college with my cable bill alone - all so that I could catch hot dog eating contests on ESPN 13 at 4:00 in the morning.

I went into work slightly more enlightened than I was the day before, but I wanted to be sure. Was I just being too negative about my job? Was I beginning some sort of just-turned-30 midlife/depression/crisis? Was I about to run out and purchase a red convertible and pierce my tongue in a desperate cry for attention from women almost half my age?

As an experiment, I decided to count the number of smiles I received around the office and cafeteria for one day. Other than one nearly mad and shaking engineer that was watching the coffee machine fill his 1 liter mug for the third time, the only smiling faces I saw on this beautiful June afternoon were the ones walking at a quickstep toward the door at closing time.

Things were quickly beginning to make sense.

Planning The Escape

Like a twitchy convict that just discovered a tunnel under his bunk, I kept my findings to myself and starting building a plan. I made a conscious effort to slow the bleeding of money from my account on useless toys. When I was in private, I started researching exotic destinations on the internet.

rat_raceSoon, I was quickly consumed by my escape plans. For 7 years I had been a rat in a never ending race, and had finally discovered that someone had left the door open on my cage. Quickly, my happiness and my bank account began to build — and on one bold evening I set a date.

My date was Jan 1, 2006. What better way to start a new year than to start a new life altogether?

In the 6 months between my enlightenment and the start of my new less paying yet more satisfying career as a backpacker, I managed to save money and sell my house myself. I picked up a copy of Rolf Pott’s book “Vagabonding” and realized that I was not alone.

Many have made this walk before me. During my meetings, I had visions of living on an organic farm, picking fruit in the sunshine, and meeting hippy girls to go surfing with. Was I heading for sure financial doom? The thought did cross my mind, especially when I started trickling news of my plan to friends and family.

Vagabonding and even gap years are not really popular concepts in America, so my announcements were usually responded to with less-than-positive enthusiasm. I did not care. I was determined not to spend the best years of my life (while I was healthy) saving money to retire when I was too old to enjoy it.

In December, I gave myself the ultimate Christmas gift, I bought a one way ticket to Bangkok and turned in my letter of resignation.

The Journey Begins

IMG_1207When the wheels of my plane left the ground and pointed its nose East toward the Pacific, I breathed an enormous sigh of relief. Luckily, the 23 hour flight provided lots of time for decompression and contemplation, which I took full advantage of.

I still had no idea where I was going or what I was getting myself into, but it had to be more interesting than learning new acronyms at a company whose name was an acronym.

As I sit here and write this, exactly one year has passed since I left the US for the first time. I grin when I read back through my early journal entries and blush slightly — thinking of what an inexperienced newbie I was.

I still do not consider myself a hardened traveler, but I do want to share my beginnings with others and inspire them to chew their way out of the maze as well. Anyone can do this. I never met a single person out of hundreds of backpackers that had regretted their decision to give up the cheese and escape the rat race.

I would not trade my adventures, experiences, and new friends for all the promotions, cable channels, or wacky tie days in the world.

This article was original published on Start Backpacking. Reprinted with permission.

Gregory Rodgers is a cubicle dweller turned vagabonding travel writer and is a self-proclaimed travel addict. He is editor of StartBackpacking.com and has been spotted on rare occasion in his hometown of Lexington, Kentucky - USA.

Greg Rodgers

Gregory Rodgers is a cubicle dweller turned vagabonding travel writer and is a self-proclaimed travel addict. He is editor of Start Backpacking and has been spotted on rare occasion in his hometown of Lexington, Kentucky - USA.

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16 Comments »

  1. Comment by Stacy — June 15, 2007

    Hi Greg! Small world, it is nice to see you on Ian’s site this morning. I recommended this article to Mike at Vagabondish a couple days ago, it’s a great story and worth reprinting. I think it will strike a chord with many people.

  2. Comment by Ian MacKenzie — June 15, 2007

    Stacy - I actually found the article through your mentioning of it on Vagabondish. Great find!

  3. Comment by Dave — June 15, 2007

    Great piece - thanks for highlighting it Ian.

  4. Comment by Mike — June 16, 2007

    Fantastic, Greg! Like reading my own biography.

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  7. Comment by JennDZ — June 19, 2007

    So inspirational! I did not end my career to go traveling, yet….but I did end it to pursue my own professional goals as a freelancer, which brought up many similar issues that you mention! I think people should always follow their dreams! It is so worth it!

  8. Comment by Greg — July 3, 2007

    Thank you all for the kind words!

    Cheers,
    Greg

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  10. Comment by Veronica — July 13, 2007

    Hi Greg, thank you for this wonderful post. I just turned 30 this year. Early last year, I quitted my ‘paycheck to paycheck’ spendthrift lifestyle after re-discovering this phrase from a book I loved and owned since university, but forgotten after I started working. It goes like this, ‘We work in jobs that we do not like, so that we can buy things that we do not need’. The book mentioned is ‘The Fight Club’.

    Today, I’m reaching the goal of clearing a 5-digit study loan, plus having a saving/investment plan. I feel that I am in better control of my life, I no longer blame external factors for being trapped in rat race. I am still working in a job that I have no love or passion about, it’s purely for the sake of money. I hope to save up enough so that I can say NO to this money-driven society.

    It is going to take awhile, but at least I have a real goal now. Thank you for your inspiring story.

  11. Comment by ebele — July 17, 2007

    Hi…

    I quit my job in sept ‘04 to follow my art. It’s been good, freeing but challenging too.

    After reading your post, I’ve suddenly come to this HUGE realisation that it wasn’t my 9-5 that caged me in. The 9-5 was just a smokescreen, a distraction from the real culprit - me. I’m the one that’s been caging myself - and I’m still there - still caged.

    How do I take that 1st step from/against/towards myself?

    Thank you for your story. It’s opened my eyes to the truth of where I am.

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  13. Comment by Mark — July 25, 2007

    Great story. Ironically, I am a US expat living in the Caribbean and for the past four years have been trapped in a cubicle in the British Virgin Islands.

    http://www.mytropicalescape.co.....a-cubicle/

    Recently, my wife and I took that one step and decided to become our own bosses by purchasing a guesthouse…I hope the story that I have linked to inspires some to unglue themselves from the rat race.

    Best,
    Mark

  14. Comment by Jon Allen — November 2, 2007

    Great story. I did something similar, well almost. My wife was working, but I wasn’t. I left a great job (in IT) in the UK and came out to South Korea.

    We’ve now moved on to Tokyo. I’ve got another job in IT which will keep us going again. Living in another country is a bit like being on holiday every day. Even though I’ve still got to go to work it is so different and there’s so much new to see and do I love it.

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  16. Comment by Jessica — December 9, 2007

    Nice picture! Who took that?!?! Seriously though - fantastic article… I’m very impressed. You are such an amazing writer, and your words will inspire countless people. very well done.

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