Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good Travelers?

05/14/09  Print This Post Print This Post    8 Comments   Popular   Written by Mike Jones
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Kuta Beach, Bali / Photo: bobby-james

From Bali to Mumbai, terror is forever lurking around the corner. Or is it? Here’s how to make peace with danger on the road.

Barely a year had passed since the September 11th attacks in New York City, when bombings struck the small Indonesian resort town of Kuta Beach, Bali.

Two popular night spots for tourists, the Sari Club and Paddy’s Pub were destroyed, one by a suicide bomber, the other by a car bomb. A year prior I had spent several nights in a row partying at both Paddy’s and the Sari Club.

Can we escape the Enemy, be it in the form of disease, natural disaster or human being?

The sting of knowing how easily it could have been me instead of those killed was undeniable.

In October 2008, I watched news reports coming out of India, detailing the horror of gunmen storming the corridors of a Mumbai hotel, exterminating people based solely on their nationality.

I’d walked the same halls a year earlier and once again, felt that same sinking understanding of how easy it is to simply be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Earthquakes, tsunamis, cyclones – more threats to our personal safety, none of which would discriminate based on nationality or religion. Even now, I’m writing this as the world looks to be on the brink of an influenza pandemic.

Terror, it seems, is forever lurking around the corner.

How then, can we possibly consider travel while such horrible things continue to exist? Can we escape the Enemy, be it in the form of disease, natural disaster or human being?

The Truth About Danger

Bali Memorial / Photo: antwerpenR

The fact of the matter is that there is no easy answer, no simple remedy. Danger exists, it always has and it always will.

Perhaps that isn’t much of a comfort, but once we allow ourselves to surrender to that concept, the easier it is to gain perspective.

The vast majority of the time that I’ve ventured out of my own little world, I’ve found that by and large, kind and generous people populate the earth. People whom in many cases, will go out of their way to help or lend a hand if need be.

True, I’ve also been robbed at knifepoint and on one particularly bad occasion, hospitalized after receiving a beating by a gang of skinheads.

I don’t wear these unfortunate experiences as any sort of badge of honour, but I have learned that bad things do happen. That much is inevitable.

Studies done by the National Safety Council show that one is far more likely to perish by drowning in the bath or accidentally suffocating in bed than as a result of travel.

And while such statistics are in no way consolation for those who lost friends and family in the Bali bombings, or the Mumbai attacks, they do emphasize the heart of the matter: that risk isn’t restricted solely to the adventurous.

A Broader View

Bali children hold candles in memory / Photo: leoniewise

Perhaps it is too easy to build up a false sense of understanding about the world around us. Without the first hand experience that travel provides, we tend to rely on hearsay and news snippets to define our opinions of foreign lands.

Unfortunately, too often, this information gives us a microscopic glimpse, rather than a broad view of the whole.

For example, which of these four countries would you guess to be statistically more at peace both within and without, than the United States: Syria, Rwanda, Cambodia or Jamaica? According to the 2008 World Peace Index, all of the aforementioned nations rank as statistically more at peace than the United States.

Nonetheless, we can only read so much out of such information. These statistics, as with all news and information are simply guidelines.

The reality of your experience is impossible to predict. I’ve travelled through dangerous places and encountered dangerous people, but these are isolated incidents that no more tire my resolve to travel than does losing my luggage.

Relinquish Control

What is possible to define however, is that we’re all unified by more or less the same desires: those of peace, health and happiness.

The borders that separate us aren’t arbiters of where good ends and bad begins. We live the lives that we want to live and while some decisions can lead to better results than others, in the end there’s only so much control we can apply over any given situation.

I can’t imagine a world where the art of travel was lost and I don’t want to, either.

If we are ever to bridge the gaps that divide us and if we strive to make the world a slightly less frightening place, then surely our only real option is to continue to see it firsthand, come what may.

What do you think about traveling and danger? Share your thoughts in the comments!


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Mike Jones travels here and there, writing this and that. He is currently a regular contributor at Tattoo Blog. If you're interested in reading more of his work, you can do so here.

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  • Hal replied on May 14, 2009

    “Studies done by the National Safety Council show that one is far more likely to perish by drowning in the bath or accidentally suffocating in bed than as a result of travel.”

    Crazy!

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  • Colin Wright replied on May 14, 2009

    Man, I really REALLY don’t want to be beaten by skinheads, but I want to travel a whole lot more :)

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  • Carlo Alcos replied on May 14, 2009

    “The borders that separate us aren’t arbiters of where good ends and bad begins” – amen brother.

    Well written and thoughtful post. Humans are very good at taking things out of context, blowing things out of proportion. The reality always seems to be so different than what we think.

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  • nomadicmatt replied on May 15, 2009

    bad things happen because thats just the way life rolls….

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  • Travel-Writers-Exchange.com replied on May 15, 2009

    Interesting post. Sometimes bad things happen — why? Could it be that if you’re a negative person you instantly draw negativity to like a magnet? If you’re not a negative person, could it be rotten luck? Life happens and sometimes things happen that are out of your control. Do your best to stay calm and roll with the punches (no pun intended). You could learn a great lesson to share with your fellow travelers.

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  • DHarbecke replied on May 15, 2009

    “You take a risk every time you slice a salami.” – Andy Warhol.

    If good things only happened to good people, everybody’d be a Care Bear. But there’d still be skinhead Care Bears, so whattaya gonna do… may as well travel and have fun.

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  • Pete Blakemore replied on May 16, 2009

    “A man who never put a foot wrong, never put a foot anywhere”

    Personal Quote: “Life is unpredictable”. there’s no point being afraid of what might happen, where you could die, where something could go wrong. Travel isn’t for everyone, and it will most likely be the bath for those people. For the rest of us though, love life for what it is: Anything you want it to be.

    Nice little internal reflection of the philosophy of travel, good piece.

    Pete

    http://pete-blakemore.com

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  • Adventurous Wench travel store replied on May 17, 2009

    One tip to all travelers: Just enjoy your adventures. Have clean fun with the locals and everything will be alright.

    If it’s your time, there no use of fighting back.

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