What Would You Ask A Spiritual Leader At 30,000 Feet?

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A minister reveals the most frequent in-flight questions he’s asked by seatmates. Christine Garvin ponders the life questions she’d want answered.

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What are some of the deep philosophical questions we ask in life?

Usually these concern health, life, death, or when Grey’s Anatomy will finally be canceled (that show needs to go).

Now imagine that you’re asked to answer those deep philosophical questions while 30,000 feet in the air?

That’s the case for Dr. Bernard E Johnson, an ordained minister who recently wrote an interesting article on the 10 questions he most often gets asked during flights. No-holds-barred cross examinations include the following light and easy fare:

  • Does the current economic crisis have spiritual roots?
  • Why are so few people truly happy?
  • Is the conflict in the Middle East leading to Armageddon?
  • Why do bad things happen to good people?

The good minister doesn’t attempt to give an answer to any of these questions (at least in the article) but simply notes that they all touch upon the deeper, “spiritual dimension of life.”

Which got me thinking – What would I ask a minister, or a guru, rabbi, or Buddhist philosopher (and the list goes on) if I sat next to one on a plane? And what would I expect as an answer?

Knowing myself relatively well, I’m sure I’d seek out if they were even moderately intuitive…and then ask them what they could tell me about myself (narcissistic? Probably. Keeps me focused? Definitely).

Beyond The Self

After that, I’d ask what brought them to a life of serving God, or other deity, and if they agree with the rules placed upon them. These are different for each religion, obviously, but for Catholics, what about that no marriage rule? Could that be part of the reason such sexual scandal exists in the church?

Yeah, maybe I wouldn’t ask that.

I would definitely ask the person’s view on women in terms of leadership within that particular religion or spiritual organization. That reveals plenty with just a little bit of information.

I suppose that I wouldn’t expect this “leader” to have any of the big answers in life, any more than the rest of us. I would certainly love to discuss the idea of the economic crisis having spiritual roots and implications, but I’ve already come to my own conclusions around that (of course, I’m open to more thoughts on the subject).

Chances are, they’re searching too, because they are human just like the rest us.

What would you ask a spiritual leader if you sat next to one on a plane? Share your thoughts below.


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About the Author

Christine Garvin

Christine Garvin is a certified Nutrition Educator and holds a MA in Holistic Health Education. She is co-editor of Brave New Traveler and founder/editor of Living Holistically...with a sense of humor. When she is not out traveling the world, she is busy writing, doing yoga, and performing hip-hop and bhangra. She also likes to pretend living in her hippie town of Fairfax, CA is like being on vacation.

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  • DHarbecke replied on May 25, 2009

    What I’d ask a spiritual leader on a plane flight:

    “You gonna eat those peanuts?”

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    • Christine Garvin replied to DHarbecke on May 25, 2009

      That is quite the existential question.

      Especially since they rarely give out peanuts these days, right?

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      • DHarbecke replied to Christine Garvin on May 27, 2009

        They don’t? Huh. In that case, I’d ask:

        “Why d’you think the airlines rarely hand out peanuts these days?”

        Seriously though, I think I’d rather just talk to them like anybody else. If the chat runs into anything deeper, fine, but it’s better if it just happens naturally. That often happens when you talk about something you have in common – like the trip itself, or peanuts.

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  • joshywashington replied on May 26, 2009

    It is just always good to talk to someone who listens and has years of wisdom and patient listening under their belt. I would take a patient and wise ear from any man or woman as a sign of spiritual maturity.
    Good Article Christine, this one got me thinking…

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  • Tim Woods replied on May 27, 2009

    That is a good question. I think I’d ask if they felt they had a choice in choosing their religion, or if it was an undeniable thing for them. I think most religious leaders would say that it was a choice, but that choosing to stick to one tribe’s approach to truth has helped them grow. Still, despite all the other things I can take on faith, I can’t bring myself to follow a specific religion.

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    • Christine Garvin replied to Tim Woods on May 28, 2009

      Tim, I understand your take on not following a specific religion. I definitely became a “reformed Catholic” as soon as I left my parent’s house, so the word religion (and because of the connection to it, spirituality) always left a bad taste in my mouth.

      It wasn’t until I finally understood it on an emotional level (it had been told to me intellectually over and over again) that spirituality can be a very different thing than religion that any sort of organized religion came back into my life (though my “religion” now is not your standard, organized one).

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  • Andrew Jiggs replied on May 27, 2009

    I would ask them how they manage to do it. I mean, it’s hard enough work not being a jerk, much less teaching others how not to be jerks.

    That said, I think I would love, love, love to be next to such a person on the plane.

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  • Meli replied on June 1, 2009

    I think I would try to use it as an uplifting moment…words of advice, any encouragement, and some prayer for my journey.

    BTW, I LOVE Grey’s Anatomy!!

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